It would be useless to discuss each of tbe eleven assignments of error, as tbe material questions are: 1. Was, there excusable neglect on tbe part of tbe defendant? 2. Did be show a meritorious defense? This is an- action to recover tbe possession of land. Defendant knew that, at August Term, 1912, an order bad been made enlarging tbe time for filing .pleadings. Tbe August term adjourned 7 Sejítember, 1912, and tbe verified complaint was filed 14 September, 1912. Whether tbe defendant actually knew before tbe November Term, 1912, that tbe time for filing pleadings bad been extended, tbe order was made at a regular' term, it was bis duty to be there and take notice of it, and tbe law presumes that be bad full knowledge .of it. Spencer v. Credle, 102 N. C., 68; Zimmerman v. Zimmerman, 113 N. C., 432; Hemphill v. Moore, 104 N. C., 379; Clark’s Code (3 Ed.), sec. 595, and tbe numerous cases in tbe notes. At any rate, 'the defendant knew at tbe November term what bad been done, and should then have asked tbe court for further time to file bis answer and defense bond. Instead of doing so, be left tbe court and took bis chances. No reasonable explanation is given for this -apparent neglect of bis own interest. Being himself an attorney, be cannot well plead ignorance of tbe law, and be must, therefore, have known that bis time for pleading bad expired. To say tbe least, defendant, in any view of bis case, left bis affairs in a very precarious state and with a seeming disregard of conse-
■ *427quences. He bas never yet tendered bis defense bond, wbieb must precede bis right to answer. It is so distinctly provided by statute. Eevisal, sec. 453; Jones v. Best, 121 N. C., 154. That section requires him to file this bond “before be is permitted to answer, plead, or demur.” That was bis first duty at November term, as soon as be learned the cause of action, if be intended to defend the action, and this be failed to do. And be took no proper action, in any way, looking to the exercise of bis right to defend,' or to its revival, as it bad then been lost by bis delay. We have seen that be bad notice of the order at August term, extending the time to plead, and this required him to make reasonable inquiry as to the filing of the complaint and to be on bis guard. He bad not even entered bis appearance on the docket. The law does not allow a party to sleep on bis rights. He must keep awake and be alert, exercising the care and watchfulness of an ordinarily prudent man in protecting bis rights and saving bis interests. We have held that the standard of care by which be must be judged is that which a man ordinarily prudent bestows upon bis important business. Roberts v. Alman., 106 N. C., 391. We said in the recent case of McLeod v. Gooch, 162 N. C., 122, that “a party bas no right to abandon all active prosecution of this case simply because be bas retained counsel to represent him in the court.” This applies with peculiar force to the defendant, now applying for relief, as be bas assumed the dual position of attorney and client, and must, therefore, give both bis personal and professional attention to bis business on the docket.
We do not think that, in any view of the facts, the defendant bas made out a case of excusable neglect. There was apparent inattention and indifference throughout the progress of the cause, without any adequate - explanation. Even if the case was not on the trial or motion docket, defendant should at least have moved for leave to file bis answer, and if be bad done this, the court, in the exercise of its discretion, may have granted bis motion. The fact that this case was not on the trial or motion docket did not prevent the court from giving judgment, though it might have excused defendant’s' absence if be bad *428been otherwise diligent and active. He took the chance of leaving his case to take care of itself, with no one duly authorized to represent him and look after his interests, and he must abide the result. We cannot take away the advantage his adversary has gained — and legitimately so — -by due attention to the ease. Vigilance is often a part of the price we must pay for what we get and what we keep after it is acquired. He who neglects his interests is apt to lose them, which is the plight of defendant now. It early grew into one of the cardinal maxims of the law, that it will assist those who are diligent and not those who sleep on their rights, and the law will not take from him who has been thus diligent, what he has secured thereby, and turn it over to him who has lost by his inaction. Broom’s Legal Maxims (6 Am. Ed.), star page 857. Heath, J., once remarked that “this is one of the maxims which we learn on our earliest attendance in Westminster Hall” (Cox v. Morgan, 2 B. and P., 412), and it is the one underlying the law of limitations or statutes of repose. So much importance does the law attach to diligence in protecting our interests, 'that it has another maxim equally fundamental and closely related to the one just mentioned: Qui prior est tempore, potior est jure, that is, he has the better right who was first in point of time. Broom, 345.
Having reached the conclusion that there is no excusable neglect, it is unnecessary that we should discuss or decide whether defendant has shown a meritorious defense. If he has, as his neglect was inexcusable, the motion should still be denied. He must not only show such a defense, but excusable neglect as well. We have, though, carefully considered the other branch of the case, and are of the opinion that he has shown no legal merits — nothing that would defeat plaintiff’s recovery. At least, he has not made it clear to us, and the burden of doing so is upon him.
He complains that the judge should have found additional facts; but there was no request that he should do so, and such a request must appear. McLeod v. Gooch, supra; Albertson v. Terry, 108 N. C., 75; Hardware Co. v. Buhmann, 159 N. C., 511. This is the well settled practice.
*429His next position is that be was a nonresident, attending court as a witness, wben the summons was served upon him. But this goes to the jurisdiction of the person and the defective service of process. In order to avail himself of it, he should have appeared specially. In a case precisely like this one, the Court held that such a service was not void, but voidable, and advantage, therefore, could be taken of it only by a special appearance. Cooper v. Wyman, 122 N. C., 184. The Court there said: “Service in such cases is not void, but voidable; hence, the party, before appearing in the action, should by special appearance move to set aside the return of service (Thornton v. Machine Co., 83 Ga., 288), and if the motion is denied, should request the judge to find the facts and enter them on the record, together with the exception to the ruling, so that it may come up for review on the appeal from final judgment. Guilford Co. v. Georgia Co., 109 N. C., 310.” .A motion to set aside a judgment upon the ground of excusable neglect is one addressed to the merits and equivalent to a general appearance, and, therefore, a waiver of any defective service of process. Scott v. Life Association, 131 N. C., 515. This case has been frequently approved. Quoting from it in Woodard v. Milling Co., 142 N. C., 102, Justice Connor says: “The test for determining the character of the appearance is the relief asked, the law looking to its substance rather than its form.” A further reference .to Scott v. Life Association, and what it decided, may serve to bring this important distinction between a general and special appearance, and the office of each, more clearly before us. "We there said: “If the appearance is in effect general, the fact that the party styles it a special appearance will not change its real character. 3 Cyc., pp. 502, 503. The question always is; what a party has done, and not what he intended to do. If the relief prayed affects the merits or the motion involves the merits, and a motion to vacate a judgment is such a motion, then the appearance is in law a general one. Ihicl., pp. 508, 509. The court will not hear a party upon a special appearance except for the purpose of moving to dismiss an action or to vacate a judgment for want to jurisdiction, and the authorities seem to hold that such a motion cannot be 'coupled *430with, another based upon grounds which relate to the merits. Am appearance for any other purpose than to question the jurisdiction of the court is general. 2 Enc. of PI. and Pr., 632. The effort of the company evidently was to try the matter and obtain a judgment on the merits while standing just outside the threshold of the court. This it could not do. A party cannot be permitted to occupy so ambiguous a position. . . . If a defendant invokes the judgment of the court in any manner upon any question, except that of the "power of the court to hear and decide the controversy, his appearance is general. . . . If he appeals to the merits, no statement that he does not will avail him, and if he makes a defense which can only be sustained by an exercise of jurisdiction, the appearance is general, whether it is in terms limited to a special purpose or not,” citing numerous cases. It all comes to this, that he cannot take the inconsistent position of denying the authority of the court to take cognizance of the cause by reason of some defect in the process, and at the same, time seek judgment in his fayor upon the merits: Affirming this principle as laid down in Scott v. Life Association are the following cases: Allen-Fleming Co. v. R. R., 145 N. C., 37; Warick v. Reynolds, 151 N. C., 606; Grant v. Grant, 159 N. C., 528. In Currie v. Mining Co., supra, Justice Allen concludes the opinion as follows: “The defendants, Allen and Golconda Company, in their application to have the judgment set aside, asked to be allowed to answer, and this is equivalent to a general appearance by both,” citing Scott v. Life Association. That is our case.
The other exceptions are without any merit. The defendant should first have appeared specially, if he questioned the jurisdiction of the court over him, and if his motion to dismiss was denied, he should have excepted and then proceeded (without appeal) to his motion to set aside the judgment, and appealed from the final order. The procedure is stated in Cooper v. Wyman, supra.
We find no error in the record.
Affirmed..