Allison Lovell and Rusty Lewis were killed in a car accident the morning after their high school prom. Rusty was driving the car with the permission of the owner, Allison’s father Michael Lovell. The vehicle was insured by ah automobile liability policy issued by defendant. The policy included a bodily injury liability limit of $250,000.00 per person per accident, medical payments [hereinafter med pay] coverage of $2,000.00 per person per accident, and collision coverage. Both occupants of the car were entitled to the med pay coverage. Because Rusty was driving at the time of the accident with the permission of Mr. Lovell, defendant was obligated to provide him with liability coverage. This obligation placed defendant in a position adversarial to that of plaintiff, who had a significant wrongful death claim against Rusty’s estate.
William Gill, defendant’s agent who had previously dealt with Mr. Lovell in connection with this insurance policy, and Francis Walker, an adjuster and twenty-year employee of defendant, repeatedly contacted the Lovells before the funeral until they met with Mr. Walker eight days after the accident. At that meeting Mr. Walker assured the Lovells that the med pay claim, which covered funeral expenses, would be paid within two weeks of receipt of the bills regardless of the status of any liability claim. Mr. Walker never stated that in addition to submitting the bills the Lovells would have to make a specific request or demand for payment, nor was such a demand mentioned in the policy. At this point the Lovells had not mentioned the possibility of filing a. wrongful death claim. To the Lovells’ surprise and revulsion, Mr. Walker began discussing the liability coverage and the low value of their daughter’s wrongful death claim at this initial meeting.
One day later Mr. Walker informed plaintiff by telephone that defendant would prefer to settle all claims including the med pay claim and any liability claim, arising out of the same accident at the same time. The Lovells then retained an attorney, Harold *419Bender, who notified defendant that he would handle all further inquiries and communications for the Lovells.
The Lovells submitted the funeral bills on July 21, 1988, but these bills had not yet been paid at the time this lawsuit was filed in May 1989. In comparison, the bills submitted for Rusty Lewis on that same day were paid within two or three weeks. Defendants contend that this disparity in treatment is due to the fact that Mrs. Lewis specifically requested payment in a letter sent along with the bills, whereas Mr. Bender merely stated that he wanted to discuss the case with Mr. Walker and did not mention the med pay claim in the letter he sent with the Lovells’ bills.
In September 1988 Mr. Bender informed Mr. Walker by letter that the Lovells were demanding the policy limits of $250,000.00 on the wrongful death claim. On November 4, 1988, Mr. Walker offered to settle the wrongful death claim for $30,000.00. The Lovells rejected the offer and continued to demand the policy limits of $250,000.00. Mr. Bender filed the wrongful death action on November 14, 1988. Thereafter Mr. Walker maintains that his only involvement with the case was some follow-up work and discussion of the wrongful death action, and that he never heard anything else from Mr. Bender or the Lovells regarding the med pay claim. During the summer of 1990, the wrongful death action went to trial and ended in a mistrial four days later after the jury could not reach a verdict. That claim was then settled for $200,000.00.
Plaintiff, mother and administratrix of the estate of Allison Lovell, filed this lawsuit on May 1, 1989 to recover on the $2,000.00 med pay claim. Plaintiff also alleged that defendant’s refusal to settle and negotiate plaintiff’s claim was willful and in bad faith, and therefore sought punitive damages of $15,000.00. At the February 4, 1991 trial, defendant’s excuses for nonpayment of the claim were that it “just plumb forgot,” and that plaintiff had failed to make a formal written demand for payment. The jury awarded $2,000.00 on the med pay claim and $225,000.00 in punitive damages, and judgment was entered accordingly. Defendant appeals, alleging that the judge erred in denying its motion for a directed verdict, the judge erred in failing to correctly identify and explain the essential elements of a bad faith refusal to settle in its instructions to the jury, and the judge erred in refusing *420to grant its motion for a new trial on the basis that the verdict was excessive. •
I. Elements of tort of insurance company’s bad faith refusal to settle a claim
[1] First, the defendant challenges the denial of its motion for a directed verdict at the conclusion of the evidence, alleging that plaintiff’s evidence did not establish the elements of a bad faith refusal to settle a claim. On a motion for directed verdict the court must consider the evidence in the light most favorable to the nonmovant, allowing the nonmovant the benefit of every reasonable inference. Atlantic Tobacco Co. v. Honeycutt, 101 N.C. App. 160, 163, 398 S.E.2d 641, 643 (1990), disc. rev. denied, 328 N.C. 569, 403 S.E.2d 506 (1991). If there is more than a scintilla of evidence in the nonmovant’s favor, the motion must be denied. Snead v. Holloman, 101 N.C. App. 462, 464, 400 S.E.2d 91, 92 (1991). Finally, if the question of whether to grant a directed verdict is close, the case should go to the jury. Atlantic Tobacco, 101 N.C. App. at 163, 398 S.E.2d at 642. In this case, the evidence was sufficient to withstand the motion for directed verdict.
In order to recover punitive damages for the tort of ah insurance company’s bad faith refusal to settle, the plaintiff must prove (1) a refusal to pay after recognition of a valid claim, (2) bad faith, and (3) aggravating or outrageous conduct. Michael v. Metropolitan Life Ins. Co., 631 F. Supp. 451, 455 (W.D.N.C. 1986); Dailey v. Integon Gen. Ins. Corp., 75 N.C. App. 387, 331 S.E.2d 148, disc. rev. denied, 314 N.C. 664, 336 S.E.2d 399 (1985).
(1) Refusal to pay valid claim
There is no dispute that the med pay claim was valid; defendant stipulated to this in its response to the complaint. Defendant alleges, however, that it did not actually refuse to pay the claim. Rather, it “just plumb forgot,” and plaintiff failed to make a formal demand for payment when she submitted the bills to defendant. Defendant stresses the fact that all of the communications between Mr. Walker and Mr. Bender dealt with the liability claim and that neither mentioned the med pay claim. Thus, nonpayment could only be due to “innocent mistake” or a “lack of attention,” not a conscious and intentional decision to refuse payment.
*421Plaintiff, on the other hand, alleges that defendant procrastinated on the med pay claim in order to induce a lower settlement of the liability claim. Moreover, Mr. Walker himself told plaintiff that the med pay claim- would be paid upon receipt of the bills and never mentioned the need to formally demand payment. The fact that the bills remained unpaid until defendant’s response to the complaint indicates a refusal to pay, according to plaintiff. Also, Mr. Lovell testified that he had, in fact, repeatedly inquired through one of defendant’s agents as to the status of the med pay claim.
Common sense leads this Court to the conclusion that submission of the bills representing funeral expenses to defendant was obviously a sufficient indication of the Lovells’ desire to be paid under the med pay provisions of their insurance policy. Mr. Walker had specifically stated that the bills would be paid upon receipt. The evidence, when viewed in the light most favorable to plaintiff, is more than sufficient to go to the jury on this element.
(2) Bad faith
According to Dailey v. Integon Gen. Ins. Corp., 75 N.C. App. 387, 331 S.E.2d 148, disc. rev. denied, 314 N.C. 664, 336 S.E.2d 399 (1985), bad faith means “not based on honest disagreement or innocent mistake.” Id. at 396, 331 S.E.2d at 155 (citing Newton v. Standard Fire Ins. Co., 291 N.C. 105, 229 S.E.2d 297 (1976)). Defendant interprets Dailey to require a “wrongful reason, purpose or motive for not paying” in order to show bad faith.
Defendant alleges that even if the jury determined it had refused to pay, this refusal was not in bad faith. Defendant denies plaintiff’s theory that the delay in payment on the med pay claim was intended to “wear down” plaintiff in order to effectuate a low settlement of the wrongful death claim, noting that the only evidence of this theory was nonpayment from July 1988 to May 1989.
Plaintiff maintains that defendant’s excuses for nonpayment were not credible. It is hard to believe that defendant “just plumb forgot” to pay the bills when it promptly paid the Lewis’ bills which were submittéd on the very same day. Plaintiff also points out that Mr. Walker was a “master adjuster” with 21 years experience, and the evidence reveals that he and his supervisor constantly reviewed the Lovells’ file. Defendant’s other excuse, that the plaintiff failed to make a formal demand for payment, is weak in light of the fact that Mr. Walker stated the bills would be *422paid upon receipt and nothing in the policy required a formal demand for payment. Thus, plaintiff surmises that since these excuses were not convincing, defendant’s delay in payment must have been deliberate and intentional in order to “wear • down” the Lovells regarding the liability claim. See Payne v. N.C. Farm Bureau Mut. Ins. Co., 67 N.C. App. 692, 694-95, 313 S.E.2d 912, 914 (1984) (pattern of excuses for nonpayment of claim indicative of bad faith).
The evidence, while not overwhelming, was sufficient to withstand the motion for directed verdict. From the evidence presented, the jury could reasonably draw the inference that defendant’s failure to pay was intentional, in bad faith, and not due to innocent mistake or honest disagreement. Plaintiff’s evidence is even sufficient under defendant’s interpretation of Dailey requiring wrongful purpose or motive, since it tends to establish that defendant intended to “wear down” the Lovells to influence settlement of the liability claim.
(3) Aggravated conduct
Aggravated conduct may be shown by fraud, malice, gross negligence, insult, rudeness, oppression, or wanton and reckless disregard of plaintiff’s rights. Dailey, 75 N.C. App. at 394, 331 S.E.2d at 154 (citation omitted).
Defendant claims that there was insufficient evidence of any aggravating conduct. Some of the incidents of questionable conduct occurred before the bills covered by the med pay claim were even submitted, and therefore are irrelevant to failure to pay the med pay claim. Other conduct relied upon by plaintiff concerned only the liability claim, and should not be considered in this case, either, according to defendant.
Plaintiff claims defendant’s actions on the whole were insulting, indignant and outrageous. For example, defendant’s agent contacted plaintiff and her husband five times before the funeral of their daughter to urge them to meet with the adjuster as soon as possible, and even insinuated that the policy could be voided if they did not immediately comply. At the first meeting, although the Lovells expected to discuss only the car and the med pay coverage, Mr. Walker informed them of a low settlement in another wrongful death case and told them their daughter wasn’t worth very much. He stated that he “didn’t see a lot of value here,” and noted that Allison was “only a high school student” with no job and no dependents. Defendant admits that the adjuster told Mr. Lovell *423that his daughter was not asleep at the time of the accident and that she had “burned up.”
Plaintiff also claims that aggravated conduct is shown by the fact that defendant admittedly linked the med pay claim and the liability claim, and stated that it wanted to settle all claims at once. Plaintiff’s allegations that defendant delayed payment of the med pay claim in order to force a low settlement of the wrongful death claim certainly indicate aggravated conduct. See Smith v. Nationwide Mut. Fire Ins. Co., 96 N.C. App. 215, 219, 385 S.E.2d 152, 154 (1989), disc. rev. denied, 326 N.C. 365, 389 S.E.2d 816 (1990) (delay on payment of claim for 5 months a factor showing aggravated conduct). See also N.C.G.S. § 58-63-15(ll)(m) (1991) (states that “[fjailure to promptly settle claims where liability has become reasonably clear, under one portion of the insurance coverage in order to influence settlement under other portions of the insurance policy coverage” is an unfair claim settlement practice; however, such a violation can only be challenged by the Commissioner of Insurance of North Carolina, and must be performed often enough to constitute a general business practice).
Plaintiff notes defendant’s late start on the investigation of the liability coverage, and a series of unanswered letters from Mr. Bender to Mr. Walker sent from July 1988 to October 1988 regarding the progress oh the liability claim. Defendant even denied that Rusty Lewis was the driver of the car, although Allison Lovell’s body was found seat-belted on the passenger side. The Lovells had to go to the expense of hiring a reconstruction expert on this, issue before defendant admitted liability. See Dailey, 75 N.C. App. at 397, 331 S.E.2d at 155 (requiring plaintiff to “go to the inconvenience and expense of obtaining qualified, expert estimates” indicative of aggravated conduct). Plaintiff also notes defendant’s low settlement offer of $30,000.00. See Smith, 96 N.C. App. at 218, 385 S.E.2d at 154 (a factor contributing to aggravated conduct was low settlement offer in violation of N.C.G.S. § 58-63-15(ll)(h) (cited incorrectly as § 58-54.4(ll)(h) in text)). Finally, plaintiff alleges that in response to Mr. Lovell’s inquiry concerning nonpayment of the med pay claim, defendant’s agent responded “[y]ou’re the one who got a lawyer,” evincing an intent to delay prompt settlement of the suit and hostility to the fact that plaintiff had retained a lawyer.
*424It is true, as defendant contends, that plaintiff relies on conduct not specifically connected to the med pay claim to support the allegations of aggravated conduct. However, since defendant admittedly linked the wrongful death and med pay claims and. wanted to resolve them at the same time, this Court finds it permissible for plaintiff to consider the whole record of defendant’s conduct in the matter. There was sufficient evidence in this case to go to the jury on the issue of aggravated conduct on the part of the defendant. The denial of defendant’s motion for directed verdict was therefore proper since plaintiff presented sufficient evidence on each element of the tort of bad faith refusal to settle a claim.
II. Jury instructions on elements of bad faith refusal to settle
[2] In its second assignment of error defendant contends the trial court failed to correctly identify and explain the essential elements of the tort of an insurance company’s bad faith refusal to settle a claim in its instructions to the jury. During the pre-charge conference defendant orally requested the trial judge to instruct on bad faith refusal to settle, and the judge agreed to do so. However, after the charge was read at trial defendant objected and requested re-instruction on a portion of the charge. The court complied and defendant did not make any further objection's until this appeal.
According to the N.C. Rules of Appellate Procedure, “[a] party may not assign as error any portion of the jury charge or omission therefrom unless he objects thereto before the jury retires to consider its verdict. . . .” Rule 10(b)(2) (1992). The purpose of Rule 10(b)(2) is to avoid unnecessary new trials due to faulty instructions which the court could have corrected if brought to its attention. See State v. Bradley, 91 N.C. App. 559, 564, 373 S.E.2d 130, 133 (1988), disc. rev. denied, 324 N.C. 114, 377 S.E.2d 238 (1989). Case law establishes that failure to timely object to jury instructions constitutes a waiver of any objection. See, e.g., Chastain v. Wall, 78 N.C. App. 350, 355, 337 S.E.2d 150, 153 (1985), disc. rev. denied, 316 N.C. 375, 342 S.E.2d 891 (1986). Also relevant to this assignment of error, the General Rules of the Superior and District Courts require that special instruction requests be submitted in writing at the jury instruction conference, and the North Carolina Rules of Civil Procedure require submission in writing before the judge begins his charge to the jury. General Rules of Practice for the Superior and District Courts, Rule 21 (1992); N.C.G.S. § 1A-1, Rule 51(b) (1990).
*425We agree with plaintiff and hold that defendant’s failure to timely object at trial and failure to submit its request for special instructions in writing precludes our review of this assignment of error.
III. Punitive damages
[3] As its third assignment of error, defendant challenges the trial judge’s denial of its motion for a new trial on the basis of an excessive punitive damage award. At the outset we nóte that defendant has submitted a Memorandum of Additional Authority which it seeks to append to this portion of the appeal. Defendant cites Mattison v. Dallas Carrier Corp., 947 F.2d 95 (4th Cir. 1991), in which the Fourth Circuit struck down South Carolina law on punitive damages as being violative of due process and unconstitutional. Neither party previously raised the issue of the constitutionality of North Carolina’s punitive damages scheme, and that issue is not now properly before this Court. See State v. Cooke, 306 N.C. 132, 137, 291 S.E.2d 618, 621 (1982) (constitutional issue not raised and passed upon in trial court will not normally be considered on appeal) (quoting State v. Hunter, 305 N.C. 106, 112, 286 S.E.2d 535, 539 (1982)).
Rule 59 of the North Carolina Rules of Civil Procedure provides that a new trial may be granted on the grounds of “[e]xcessive or inadequate damages appearing to have been given under the influence of passion or prejudice. . . .” N.C.G.S. § 1A-1, Rule 59(a)(6) (1990). It is within the sole discretion of the trial judge to determine whether to grant a Rule 59 motion for new trial on the grounds of excessive damages. See Worthington v. Bynum, 305 N.C. 478, 482, 290 S.E.2d 599, 602 (1982). The judge’s decision may be reversed on appeal only if the appellate court “is reasonably convinced by the cold record that the trial judge’s ruling probably amounted to a substantial miscarriage of justice” or a “manifest abuse of discretion. . . .” Id. at 487, 482, 290 S.E.2d at 605, 604. Furthermore, the party challenging the trial judge’s decision must meet a heavy burden of proof. Id. at 484-85, 290 S.E.2d at 604; Burgess v. Vestal, 99 N.C. App. 545, 550, 393 S.E.2d 324, 327, disc. rev. denied, 327 N.C. 632, 399 S.E.2d 324 (1990).
Defendant contends that the $225,000.00 punitive damages award is “clearly unreasonable” because it “does not bear any logical relation” to the amount of the medical payments claim or conduct of Nationwide. Recently, this Court held that a trial judge had *426not abused his discretion in denying a Rule 59 motion for new trial on the basis that the punitive damages of $175,000.00 were excessive when compared to the compensatory damages of $4,550.00. Maintenance Equip. Co. v. Godley Builders, 107 N.C. App. 343, 353-54, 420 S.E.2d 199, 204-05 (1992). The Court noted that punitive damages are awarded “above and beyond actual damages” in order to punish the wrongdoer. Id. at 354, 420 S.E.2d at 205. In Cole v. Duke Power Co., 81 N.C. App. 213, 344 S.E.2d 130, disc. rev. denied, 318 N.C. 281, 347 S.E.2d 462 (1986), a jury awarded $1.5 million compensatory damages and $1.5 million punitive damages for the wrongful death of a child who had been playing near an unlocked. electrical cabinet and was electrocuted when he climbed inside. The Court upheld the verdict, finding no “substantial miscarriage of justice.” 81 N.C. App. at 226, 344 S.E.2d at 137. See also Hairston v. Alexander Tank & Equip. Co., 60 N.C. App. 320, 330, 299 S.E.2d 790, 796 (1983), rev’d on other grounds, 310 N.C. 227, 311 S.E.2d 559 (1984) (this Court upheld $200,000.00 verdict in negligence action, stating that it would not “second-guess a jury”); Kremer v. Food Lion, Inc., 102 N.C. App. 291, 296, 401 S.E.2d 837, 839-40 (1991) (this Court upheld trial judge’s denial of Rule 59 motion for new trial on grounds of excessive verdict where jury had awarded plaintiff who fell in defendant’s supermarket $90,000.00). We have not found any cases finding an abuse of discretion for failure to order a new trial on the basis of excessive damages in North Carolina.
The trial judge, who actively participated in the trial and had first-hand knowledge of the proceedings, was clearly in a much better position than this Court to determine whether the jury award was excessive. Worthington, 305 N.C. at 487, 290 S.E.2d at 605. Our Supreme Court stated in Worthington that the appellate courts “should place great faith and confidence in the ability of our trial judges to make the right decision, fairly and without partiality, regarding the necessity for a new trial.” Id. Moreover, trial judges should use their discretion “sparingly,” and “in proper deference to the finality and sanctity of a jury’s findings.” Hairston, 60 N.C. App. at 330, 299 S.E.2d at 796. We find no abuse of discretion here.
The fact that plaintiff only requested $15,000.00 in punitive damages in the complaint is a factor, but is not determinative' as to whether the verdict was excessive. Had the plaintiff plead correctly, the complaint would have merely requested punitive *427damages in excess of $10,000.00. N.C.G.S. § 1A-1, Rule 8(a)(2) (1990). This Court has noted the “longstanding rule that damages in this state are governed by the evidence presented, rather than the claim made for relief. . . .” Biggs v. Cumberland County Hosp. Sys., Inc., 69 N.C. App. 547, 550, 317 S.E.2d 421, 424 (1984). The evidence presented at trial was sufficient to support the jury’s verdict. The fact that the complaint contains a much lower figure does not persuade this Court that the trial judge abused his discretion.
The evidence presented was sufficient to support both the finding of the tort of bad faith refusal to settle a claim and the punitive damages award. We find no error. The decision of the superior court is
Affirmed
Judge WYNN concurs.
Judge WALKER dissents.